Daniel Goleman Quotes on Communication

About Daniel Goleman

Pioneering psychologist and author who popularized emotional intelligence. Profound influence on leadership, education, and personal development worldwide.

Quote

Anyone can become angry — that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way — this is not easy.

—  Daniel Goleman

Insight

Reacting is instant. Responding well requires practice, pause, and judgment you develop slowly.

Actionable Takeaways

  • Pause five seconds before replying when upset.
  • After any conflict, write three words describing what you actually needed.
  • Train hard to build muscles that put everyone around you in zen mode.